A hair question..? how do you....?

i have wat i call baby hairs that whenever i do something with my hair this like frizz/stick out! and idk how to prevent that. i have used hair spray and gel and i don't wanna make my hair hard.. i still want it to be soft but the ';baby hairs'; keep sticking out any suggestions?A hair question..? how do you....?
I have the same problem when i tie my hair up in a high pony tail. I just waited until the baby hairs would grow =3 and in the mean time i would use clips to keep them up ^^ worked for me.A hair question..? how do you....?
Try to avoid tight ponytails or buns!! My sister told me this amazing thing though because I used to have them: use water as a gel. It keeps them down.
Use water and treat that as a gel it works for me